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Reasons why some straight people might have gay sex

Being a gay man is perfectly fine. You are allowed to do whatever makes you happy, as long as you are doing it with consent and aren’t hurting anyone. However, there are gay men unwilling to accept their sexual orientation and straight men who got a bit carried away during a night out.

 

Many people believe it is impossible for a straight man to have gay sex and remain straight, but that’s far from the truth. Here, we will go through some of the scenarios where straight men might have homosexual experiences.

Wanting More

One of the first reasons why a straight man might be willing to explore gay sex is wanting more. People believe that men who are straight can only have sex with women. They see gay and straight as polarities, and according to them, it is impossible to be curious or experiment.

 

Of course, there are men who are bisexual, but for some, it is just another term for being gay. Curious individuals will engage in gay sex during private encounters. For some, it might be one of the early phases of “coming out.”

 

However, some men are liberal and open. They see it as another experience and a chance to try something new. How would you know if you’d like the experience without ever trying it? Wanting more refers to people who have tried lesbian or gay sex before, and they simply want more of it. It is a way to discover how they feel or to simply do something that gives them pleasure.

 

Yes, there are those who find gay sex appalling, and they would never want to try it themselves. They see nothing wrong with other men doing it, but they don’t want to be part of it. That’s perfectly fine.

 

Sexual attraction is far from simple, and people shouldn’t look at it in such a binary way.

Drunk and Curious

The second type is completely different from the first group. In the previous example, there are sexual feelings, and men are attracted to people of the same sex. This is why they test their boundaries to see where the story takes them. They want more of it.

 

But here, we have a different situation. Most commonly, these are young adults who decide to try it after a night of drinking. It might seem like a good drunk idea, and they usually consider themselves liberal.

 

In the majority of cases, they don’t know their partner, and there is little to no physical attraction between them. However, they still get curious enough to try it. The experience is usually not as pleasant as one might believe, and they will rarely repeat it.

Of course, there are those who would be willing to be more open about their sexuality while under the influence, but we aren’t talking about people who might be gay, bisexual, or similar. Straight men can also be curious about how they might feel during this type of sexual experience.

Little Enjoyment

The third group of people are those looking for a bit of enjoyment and pleasure. They are the least likely to enjoy the experience, and they won’t go as far as other groups. Instead of sex, the adventure will often end up with kissing or hooking up, and this often happens under the influence.

 

The majority of people in this group know their partner from before, and this group is quite small. There aren’t many men who would be willing to try something as “wild” and unconventional, and it will bring them almost no pleasure.

 

The situation is similar to regular curiosity, i.e., they just wonder how it might feel and what other men find attractive about it.

Maybe for Show

Here, we have something you have probably encountered before. It is common for ladies, but men can try it as well. You’ve probably seen two straight girls during a night out (or a party) making out or fooling around in some way.

 

The scenario is usually pretty simple. They drink for a while, and they want to make a show. The idea behind it is to be the center of attention, and the encounter will usually end up with kissing and slight touching. They might play with each other’s breasts or buttocks, and that’s it.

 

While the experience might be pleasurable, it is not something they will repeat or pursue in the future. It has more to do with peer pressure and all the drinks they have had, and the same thing can apply to men.

 

Of course, men will be less likely to start kissing in public, but it can be due to a number of reasons. In the end, it all comes down to making a show combined with a bit of curiosity.

Loved It, But Religious

There is a group of men and women who had never had same-sex encounters before, and the first time they did, it was incredible. They loved every second of it, but due to religious reasons, they aren’t willing to continue doing it.

 

In this group, people are not curious or drunk. They are led by passion and emotion. In a perfect world, it is something they would undoubtedly pursue and explore. However, their religion and beliefs often don’t allow them, and they are afraid of being something society won’t accept.

 

The feelings they have are often mixed. We can see that their intentions are pure, and they might even have romantic feelings towards the person they shared the experience with. The main problem is that they have opinions on homosexual relationships, and it is usually influenced by their religion.

 

Unfortunately, these people will have a hard time breaking from their chains and accepting pleasure for what it is.

Just Not Who I Can Be

The last group consists of men who are expected to be straight. This might be thanks to their friends and family members, culture, or religion. They love the idea of being with someone of the same sex, but it is not something they have the courage to try.

 

Their upbringing and religion formed the idea that homosexuality is bad, and they are often scared to think about it (regardless of how pleasurable it seems). They deeply believe that being gay is wrong. As you can probably guess, these people are often conservative, and it is rare for them to even try something.

 

While there are those who would try occasional hookups, it is nearly impossible for them to try having a relationship with a same-sex partner. The worst thing about it is that it is something that they would enjoy and gladly accept if not for religion or society’s expectations.

 

Naturally, it is difficult to find members of this “group” since they would never accept the “naughty” feelings they have. You will never hear someone belonging to this group openly talk about how they feel and how they spent their weekend. It will be a Pentagon-level secret that they will guard until the next encounter.

Author Since: Nov 05, 2018

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